CBT for OCD
For the intrusive thoughts that won't leave you alone, and the compulsions, checking, or reassurance-seeking you use to try to quiet them.
Signs this might be for you
- Intrusive, distressing thoughts, images or urges that repeat and feel hard to dismiss
- Compulsions like checking, washing, counting, or arranging things a specific way
- Mental rituals such as repeating phrases, reviewing memories, or seeking reassurance from yourself
- Asking others for reassurance repeatedly about the same worry
- Avoiding situations, objects or people connected to your intrusive thoughts
OCD has two parts: intrusive thoughts, images or urges that feel distressing and often completely at odds with who you are, and compulsions (checking, washing, mental rituals, reassurance-seeking) that you use to try to reduce the distress or prevent something bad from happening. The compulsions bring relief, briefly, and that relief is exactly what keeps the cycle going.
The gold-standard CBT treatment for OCD is Exposure and Response Prevention, usually shortened to ERP. It involves gradually facing the situations or thoughts that trigger your obsessions while deliberately not carrying out the compulsion, so your brain gets the chance to learn that the feared outcome doesn't happen and that the anxiety passes on its own. This is built as a structured hierarchy, agreed with you, never sprung on you.
A lot of people come to OCD treatment carrying real shame about their intrusive thoughts, particularly if the content is violent, sexual or blasphemous in nature. I want to be direct about this early: intrusive thoughts of that kind are an extremely well-documented feature of OCD, they do not reflect what you want or who you are, and you don't need to disclose the specific content before you're ready to.
What treatment actually looks like
01
Assessment
We identify your specific obsessions, compulsions (including mental ones), and any avoidance, and rule out related presentations that need a different approach.
02
Formulation and psychoeducation
We build a shared understanding of the obsession-compulsion cycle and why response prevention, not reassurance, is what breaks it.
03
ERP
We build and work through a graded exposure hierarchy together, always with your input on pace, reducing compulsions as we go.
04
Consolidation and relapse prevention
We prepare for stressful periods that tend to increase OCD symptoms, and build a plan for using ERP principles independently afterwards.
ERP built as a graded hierarchy
We build your exposure hierarchy together, starting with what's manageable, so response prevention never feels like being thrown in at the deep end.
No judgement about thought content
Whatever the theme of your intrusive thoughts (harm, contamination, sexual, religious, relationship-focused), it's treated as clinical material, not as a reflection of your character.
Reducing compulsions you can't see too
We work on covert compulsions like mental checking or reassuring yourself internally, which are often missed in less specialist treatment.
Y-BOCS-informed tracking
Alongside general outcome measures, we track OCD-specific symptoms too, so progress on obsessions and compulsions is something we can actually see, not something either of us has to take on faith.
Questions about ocd at Pamoyo Therapy
Will I have to tell you the exact content of my intrusive thoughts?
Not before you're ready to, and we can work with the theme or category of the thought before you're comfortable sharing specifics. In my experience, most clients find that naming it directly, once they're ready, is a relief rather than the ordeal they expected.
Does having violent or disturbing intrusive thoughts mean something is wrong with me as a person?
No. This is one of the most well-established findings in OCD research: the content of intrusive thoughts has no bearing on your actual character or risk to others. The distress you feel about the thoughts is itself evidence they're ego-dystonic, meaning they go against your values, not with them.
How is ERP different from just being told to 'stop the compulsions'?
ERP is structured and gradual, built around a specific hierarchy agreed with you, and always paired with understanding why response prevention works. You're not just gritting your teeth and pushing through; every stage is planned, with support built in throughout.
How many sessions does OCD treatment usually need?
Many clients see meaningful change within the standard 12-session programme, though OCD that's more complex or long-standing often benefits from the extended 15 to 20 session option. We'll discuss this honestly once we understand your presentation.
Can ERP be done effectively online?
Yes. A significant amount of ERP research and practice happens over video, particularly since so many compulsions (checking phones, searching online, mental rituals) happen in your own environment anyway, which online sessions let us work with directly.
Is there a waiting list?
No. You can typically start your assessment within a week or two of getting in touch.
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